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My fiance says we don’t have *** enough. We do live together and we have *** about 2-3 times a week. We both work 40+ hours at work and attend school. I think we have a healthy *** life he thinks that we should be doing it more. What do you think?
My fiance says we don’t have *** enough. We do live together and we have *** about 2-3 times a week. We both work 40+ hours at work and attend school. I think we have a healthy *** life he thinks that we should be doing it more. What do you think?
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Apparently he needs it more then you do:men have a higher *** drive caused by testosterone.
Make a deal.
Space
the frequency of *** changes with more time you are together…2-3 x’s a week is good even for people in the honeymoon stage.
remember the more you say no, the more power you have in the relationship, and the more she’ll want it…
Males should either have *** OR ********** a minimum of once a day. There is NOTHING wrong with having *** 2 or 3 times a week — you on the other hand need to then understand that he will masturbate, and you need to be COMPLETELY ok with that. If HE is the one that is not ok with the idea of ************ — I suggest that HE see a *** therapist — because for any male, no matter how active his *** life may be to not ********** at least somewhat regularly indicates some deep seated problems that need attention — its abnormal.
Kind thoughts,
Hermes
For women, *** is more about the gentle touch and romance and foreplay than ***********. Grab a good book on *** and read it together - it’ll give you a better guide on the differences between men and women and help you work out your own pattern. 2-3 sounds fairly average but some do more and some do less - up to you guys and what you want but pressure won’t improve it, it will more likely reduce it.
The Act of Marriage by Tim La Haye is good but you might have to get it from a shop that sells scripture books.
And I don’t agree with Hermes at all. Sounds more like obsession to me.
Enough *** is reached when ones desire for it has been filled, some people want more, some less. The only problem you all have is that your need for it may be less then his, and it’s not that big of a deal as long as you both remain open minded about it all.
Perhaps you could try to offer it a bit more and he could ask for it a bit less, it’s kinda like meeting each other half way.
2-3 times a week is an extremely healthy *** life…seems like your fiance just wants to get with you, who can blame him haha :p
he’s just really ***** but 2-3 times is plenty. if he wants more, give him what he wants!
Honestly, I think that’s plenty.
Well, he like *** he can’t stop thinking about it.Every 10 seconds men think of ***.Pick a certain day and have ***.But apperently he needs sex
The only answer to you question is…ARE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SATISFIED? If either one of you says no! Then something must be changed. Don’t you think? I think that the fact that your fiance in not having enough should make you think about increasing your sexual ***********. I should provably recommend you, to also give her/him massages and more caresses. Hugs and ***!! Yes..maybe is a healthy “measure” of ***…but she/he is NOT satisfied!!!!!! Think about it!!
I personally think 2-3 times a week is fine, however, there is a bigger issue at stake here: This is a question and discussion that you should perhaps have with him, as you are now engaged to this man.
Of course, when you begin to settle down with someone, there is a natural stage of getting used to eachother’s pace of life, and it’s right that men often do want more *** than women, so what you’re going through is normal. What you need to do though is talk to him about all this and come up with an understanding of both’s feelings and needs. If you’re not compatible at all in this issue, then alarm bells should ring about other issues too…
Finally, the answer to the right number of times per week is simple, as often as BOTH people want to do it. NEVER be forced into it when you really don’t want it.
Cheers,
I too think its healthy but yeah like everyone else answers in here, people have different wants and needs. To us 2-3 times a week is too low but that’s cause we are very opened to one another about each other wants. In this case I totally agree with Hermes answer regarding mens personal alone “me” time..lol.
i think he needs it more than you right now, but dont worry it wont continue for a long time,just try to saticfy him as much as he want , after some times you will see that he ask it less than befor , dont worry , it will be a short time .
Get her a dildo, a rabbit to be exact, and let her have *** whenever she wants…
I guess 2 or 3 times having *** is fair enough for health *** life. but ıf your match has more pent up in him. why do not you let him what he wants. but satisfaction of your *** life needs to be mutual so that both side can get satisfaction from what they do.
i think you should do it more you should want to is feels so f****n good
all week long
If you are tired and don’t want *** don’t force it just because he wants too. People who are together for years sometimes don;t have *** anymore.. sometimes at all so he should count himself lucky he’s gettin any wih the attitide hes got. Only going to make you feel small
i dnt kno bout *** never done it but ithink u should give yo fiance more *** u kno men likes *** 2 much
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