Comments on: Is *** truly important in a relationship between a man and a woman if there is great companionship?

By: eliz

eliz — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 06:39:50 +0000

Although it is imp to have a strong companionship, it is also imp to make love once in a while.
When you are married, and have a good companionship, as you mentioned. You both connect, intelectually, emotionally, and mentally.
But with sex, it is sharing intimacy with one another. It is the moment you can show your partner the love you cant express in words. It is a way of making her actually feel the love, and not hear it. It is when you both can show each other how much you adore one another, and how you love every inch of their body. It is when you focus only on that person, and no one/nothing else. When we make love, we shut the whole world out, and leave our senses to the moment - to the emotions we feel. It is when you can make each other feel Beautiful. Feel accepted. Feel loved.
It is when you let your emotions take over your body. When you two can go back in time, and feel young again. Its a secret place that only you two have shared for all these years.
Its time to go back and visit.
If there are certain* problems that cant make *** possible, then there are certain ummm meds to fix that. If that cant be an option, then dont have ***. But become intimate. Maybe by kissing passionately. Looking into her eyes again, like the way you did the first time you fell inlove with her. Touch her. Caress her. Hold her.

sigh.. this is making me miss my bf

By: Lystica

Lystica — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 04:11:32 +0000

The only thing that would make your situation a problem would be if you two dwell on if it is normal or not. Whatever your marriage is comfortable with is normal for you. I would suggest that since there isn’t alot of physical loving going on, to make sure to nurture each other emotionally and menatally. Always be sure to say “I love you” and make each other still feel attractive.

By: carlos

carlos — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:19:40 +0000

yes it is it isa great way 2 bond and its a good way 2 loose some stress

By: clvr1001

clvr1001 — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:18:58 +0000

It’s up to the two of you, BUT: I think too many people have this ‘problem’ (low or no *** drive) and accept it as just ‘normal’!

And I beg to differ…. Although you have a good relationship, I bet your relationship would be much more passionate and fulfilling if you both had a healthy *** drive. I am willing to put my money on it!

I think low *** drive is a symptom of a larher problem and should be addressed. Why anyone would think this (and gathering from the answers on here) normal, is a real worry as far as I’m concerned….

By: Cassie B

Cassie B — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 18:59:40 +0000

Well, it doesn’t matter really. As long as you both love each other. And if both of you agree that you don’t want *** then yes, I think that’s OK. It’s totally up to you about ***.

By: erin_simangan

erin_simangan — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 14:54:44 +0000

sex maybe allimportant but if you really want to or you just think that your kinda not ready….. i guess you just that way but its really your decsion

By: StopSnoring

StopSnoring — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 10:51:19 +0000

Sex is important but it’s not everything, Try to be grateful and accept your partner.
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By: Kris W

Kris W — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 22:33:28 +0000

Lack of *** drive might be a symptom of obesity and or other health problems. I suggest you talk to a doctor.

Any way’s.. the truth is alot(but thankfully not all) women are happy with a sexless marriage but (for the most part) guy’s aren’t. Notice the 50% or more divorce rate?

All I know is regardless of age(well I guess when you get way up there it might become difficult or physically unsafe)
if I was married and had to deal with that kind of abuse(denying *** is a form of emotional and physical abuse) I would go right to an attorney.

But your husbands acceptance is it what he said openly and honestly or what you hope he would say?

Maybe at this point the idea of starting over is scary, but sooner or later divorce is an inevitability of this kind of abuse.

I suggest a diet+exercise+ marriage councilor.

By: tigersalamander2006

tigersalamander2006 — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 11:54:55 +0000

This is a lot easier for the woman. Unless the man has health issues. I know from experience.

By: Deuce

Deuce — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:26:23 +0000

You shouldn’t worry about judgment; whatever makes you happy. You have to make sure that you are feeling content and fulfilled. It’s possible that due to body image issues, you were never comfortable with your sexual life anyway. I happen to have had a friend who never had *** and has never been interested.